When other people take a long time to reply to e-mail: lazy, unfriendly, irresolute, displaying a kind of disorganization characteristic of an unconscious and wasted life. When I take a long time: busy, thoughtful, rich inner world, applying the effort to do a good job, generous and sincere, an admirable and worthy friend.
@vruba When I reply quickly: rushed, sloppy, best not to consider this possibility
@vruba Hah, shit. That's a small social reminder I probably legitimately needed today. >.<
@vruba absolutely accurate