Nothing like finding the obituary of your dad, who abandoned your family via letter when you were 6, and folks are talking about how kind & generous he was. People really do lead multiple lives. Wild stuff
one thing about estrangement is that the grief is so solitary
update: P read the will for me and it was intentionally cruel! I expected there to be some sort of cruel “joke” inheritance, and I was not far off! Filled with rage! Last name change for me & the kids coming soon, stay tuned…
Took a long walk to process being raised by psychopaths and turns out a walk is not enough! Also planning to reorient my life towards my own joy, because that would have really pissed him off and I’m very motivated by vengeance!
